Last week we sort of had a rough week. Its what i like to call "a bad week to be married." We just were not gettin along very well, which im sure happens in all of our lives, but probably not in blog world. In blog world all of our lives are perfect right? It was nothing too big, or anything, just difference in opinions all week long it felt like, and probably one of the first times this has happened to us, and no it was not PMS.
Anyways... instead of watching TV before bedtime on Sunday night we layed in bed and talked about EVERYTHING that happened throughout the week. More so me than him, because for some reason boys can just let things go easier. We call this "Relationship Inventory" and its the best thing that anybody can do for thier relationships. Its the time for both of you to be humble and let out your feelings and tell each other what to work on to be a better spouse for the other. We were also both pretty tired, so we decided to go to sleep and finish our "Relationship I nventory" Monday night for FHE.
We actually had the best time on Monday evening. After my last class we helped each other clean the "shoe box" and then we went to play raquetball together. Huston loves raquetball, and I do too, but i just lose attention span way too easy and dont want to play for very long. After some friendly competition, we drove out to where we are house sitting and played some Kinect Sports, followed by eating a healthy salad with leftover grill chicken in it(YUM) and then visiting our good friend who just had a baby. It has been a while since we have given each other that much undivided attention i think, and it was just what we needed. We alotted some time for STUPID homework, and then had a little lesson together and continued our "relationship inventory."
Beach Volleyball: Huston-1 Kilie-1
Track and Feild events:Kilie-1 Huston-1
Table tennis: Huston-1
What is comes down to is ..."The best things in life, just arent things!" We were able to have a simple yet amazing evening together and we both feel tons better. Im glad we are back on track! :) Sometimes, thats all it takes is letting it all out, and then spending some good time together.
Im so grateful to be married to a man that is always happy. His smile radiates and is very contagious. I knew i married him for a reason, and that was because i knew i would be one happy girl. He makes me so happy, and there aint nothin wrong with that. We are perfect for each other. If you asked me 5 years ago (yep its been that long since we met) if i was going to marry him, I probably still would have told you yes.....I have known for a long time that I was supposed to be with this man, and I thank God every day for Huston because he is the greatest blessing.
Now everything can be perfect in the blog world again! Yay, just letting everyone know we are still human.
Oh, and no we dont just have FHE when life is hard(haha) we are actually pretty consistent at it. Its an excuse for me to cook and for us to have something fun to do on a weeknight.



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